Exams are over! Year 12 has been completed! Some 13 years of education is now brought to its end.
Such is the situation that thousands of seventeen and eighteen year old Australians find themselves in at this time. There is no better feeling than making it through a long term project successfully, something that these students have now achieved. 13 years ago, they began that long term project. That project has included learning a basket-full of skills, including a wide rage of those which are grammatical and mathematical, and they have also in that time informed themselves of the history of the world in which they live, and they have discovered and learnt about our world through the means of science, and they have developed and used their God-given talents in art and sport.
Now that these students have just completed such a period of their life, they have every right to celebrate and share their joy and success with others. There is nothing wrong with that – nothing could be more natural to the human race than a celebration for one’s success and achievement, in this case the completion of many years education. However, it is the way these students around the country choose to celebrate that should be a concern to us all.
Alcohol, alcohol, and more alcohol. During schoolies week, thousands of youth around the country will be drinking as much alcohol as they can muster: alco-pops, beers, wines, spirits, cocktails and other mixed drinks - anything that is alcoholic will be taken and drunk of deeply. Drunkedness results in drugs, violence, rape, sex, illness, death. Why is it that the young people of today, in such a civilised society as ours, ignore the consequences of excessive drinking? It is not that they have not been informed of or warned of the consequences. Why is it then that they make such decisions? Year after year we hear countless stories of students who have been bashed, drowned, raped, drugged, even dead… all because of the effects of excessive drinking. Lives are destroyed, memories are ruined. To me it is clear: what happened to responsibility? Why is it that so many students are not taking responsibility of their lives and the lives of their friends? I pat the backs of the few who have gone through schoolies week as responsible young adults who have avoided drunkedness and taken care of their friends.
What is the solution to making schoolies week a safe and happy time for all?
Increase the legal drinking age to 21? No. If alcohol is drunk excessively at 16th birthday parties when the legal age for drinking in public is 18, then people will still drink excessively at 18 if the legal age was 21.
Increase the price of alcohol? No. Why should responible drinkers suffer by paying more as a result of other people’s stupidity?
Make alcohol harder to aquire? No.
More responsibility taken by parents for their children? Yes. How can this be done?
The phrase we hear over and over by many parents today is “Let them be, they’ll learn from their own mistakes”. Such a belief holds true in some matters. For example, exams. Students will learn from their mistake of not committing enough time to study for it. But a mistake in this area cannot destroy one’s life. A second example: responsibility over finances. Teenagers will learn from their mistake of having spent all their part-time work money when they reach a time when they realise that if they didn’t spend it all on clothes or games, they could have had a significant amount in their savings that could have gone towards a holiday or something greatly desired. However, yet again such a mistake cannot destroy one’s life. Parents are right in letting their children learn from their own mistakes in such situations. But a mistake made in regards to things like alcohol, sex, and drugs can most certainly destroy people’s lives, and parents who believe in the “Let them be, they’ll learn from their mistakes” in regards to these issues must have nuts and bolts in their heads. What good parent would let their child learn from a mistake when in reality that mistake could cause serious damage or grief that could have otherwise been avoided? How can young people be expected to be responsible in their lives when their parents have been slack in practicing responsibility over them?
I have no doubt that the problem we have with many young people today stems down to a lack of responsibility, which is a reflection of our society.
Finally, I must add one more thing. I have never known a young Christian who practices and lives his or her faith to be a drunkard or a person lacking in responsibility. They do their best to live their lives as the Word of God in the Bible teaches, and if Catholic, also by living their lives in accordance to Church doctrine. If they ever fail, they repent and ask for God’s help to strengthen them. Infact, the more I think about it, there is a link between religion and responsibility. Does this make sense to you? Our society is secular and teaches “believe what you want, you only live once, hell doesn’t exist so have fun and do watever you want!” Hmm. Perhaps religion isn’t such an “uncool” thing afterall. I have no doubt that the very reason society is the way it is today is because of its negect of the importance of God and His commands in our lives.
Vincent Stefano
Director of Youth for Australia